Saturday 20 June 2009

FRIENDS AND PHD....who remember or ignore you?

I would like to express my disappointment and sadness to my friends coorperation and assistance in my research . Early this month I went to see my ex classmate (we did our master degree together in 2001-2003) at his office. He is working with one of well-known ministry and his duty really relate to my research. Less that 20 minutes discussion, he is rushing to attend a meeting and ask me to call him next week. I am not satisfied with the information he gave to me. I wanted to ask him more and how its relate to my research. I sent him an email to said thank you and request for new date for next meeting. Until now he never reply my email. That I called him early in the morning (normally after 9.00am government officers attended meeting or go for breakfast)..again he is not answering or returning my call. I send him sms and never reply. What is wrong with you....why is so difficult to get you? I want to discuss with you about your finding on studies that you did. However,I try to think positively...may be he is so busy to attend my email, sms and calling. Just pray to God...I hope he will always remember me not ignore me...

Then the same situation happened to me last week, I call my officemate to email me some information that related to my task as PID 2009 Commitee Member. Until now I still waiting his email..Again,what is wrong with you....why is so difficult to give me the information? I try to think positively...may be he is so busy to attend my request. I hope if you read this you all not mad at me. I am not angry with you all but I am regret with your attitude...

I remember before I do my PhD I read a few books about preparation before entering the world of PhD... the scholars said WHEN YOU DOING PHD YOU WILL KNOW WHO IS YOUR FRIEND AND WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIENDS? WHO IS STILL REMEMBER YOU AND WHO IS IGNORE YOU? However, I hope and pray to God when you pursue your PhD you will not face the same problem as I do. And I hope out there..may be other people that I did not know them well to assist me until I complete my PhD research.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Sabar ye Abg Mie.....anggap semua ini COBAAN.....anyway cai yuk cai yuk hehehhe...kuatkan semangat dan teruskan perjuangan.....

p/s : U are my abang forever

Mona Fandey

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